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The NCCEFT is a robust community with many members leading events to discuss the theory and practice of EFT, facilitate Hold Me Tight Workshops, as well as engage in social mixers to connect with other like minded attachment based therapists.

These events are free an open to any and all members.  If you would like to list a community event for NCCEFT
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    • 06 Oct 2025
    • 9:00 AM
    • 09 Oct 2025
    • 4:00 PM
    • First Presbyterian Church, 2407 Dana Street, Berkeley, CA
    Register

    Step into the world of Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFCT)—a groundbreaking, research-backed approach that transforms relationships and deepens emotional bonds. This immersive externship is your gateway to mastering the essential EFT framework, equipping you with the theory, clinical techniques, and interventions needed to help couples heal and thrive.

    Developed by renowned psychologist Dr. Sue Johnson, EFT is a powerful, evidence-based model for understanding and reshaping love relationships. This externship is led by ICEEFT-certified trainer Dr. Paul Guillory, a dynamic and engaging expert in EFT. Dr. Guillory, author of the trailblazing book Emotionally Focused Therapy with African American Couples, is internationally recognized for weaving cultural and multicultural perspectives into EFT, ensuring a deeply inclusive and impactful learning experience.

    Over four transformative days, you'll engage in interactive lectures, role-plays, video demonstrations, and live consultations, immersing yourself in the EFT model. You’ll gain firsthand experience with the EFT Tango, master key interventions, and develop a deeper understanding of how attachment science informs effective couples therapy.

    This externship isn’t just training—it’s the first step toward EFT certification and an opportunity to join a global movement of therapists who are reshaping the way couples connect. Whether you're new to EFT or looking to refine your skills, this experience will expand your clinical toolkit and elevate your practice.

    Join us and take the first step toward becoming an EFT-certified therapist—where science meets the art of love and connection!

    PRESENTER BIO:

    Paul T. Guillory, PhD, is a recognized leader in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), certified as a Trainer and Supervisor by the International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy (ICEEFT). With a strong commitment to cultural sensitivity and inclusivity, Dr. Guillory provides Emotionally Focused Therapy training and supervision to therapists seeking to enhance their cultural competence and effectively work with clients from diverse backgrounds. 

    You can learn more about Dr. Guillory here

    (Note: Event will proceed depending on registration numbers.)

    What you should expect to learn in an “Externship”

    • Participants will obtain a clear understanding of the basic experiential and systemic concepts of an “Emotionally Focused” approach to therapy.
    • Participants will be able to view clients in the web of their interpersonal attachments and conceptualize relationship distress and repair based on theories of attachment and emotion.
    • EFT is a relational therapy. The Externship will focus on the model of EFCT laid out in the 2019 book, Attachment Theory in Practice, and teach the model as implemented in couple therapy sessions.
    • Participants will develop skills in sharing and maintaining an engaged, open and collaborative alliance with clients.
    • Participants will obtain a clear understand of multicultural extra stress and the Extra-C.A.R.E. model.
    • Participants will develop skills in the 5 moves of the basic macro-intervention – the EFT Tango – to change patterns of affect regulation, models of self and other, strategies for engaging others and interactional patterns.
    • Participants will develop skills in EFT micro interventions taken from experiential and attachment systemic models of intervention.
    • Participants will develop skills in overcoming common blocks and impasses in couple therapy and so shape core corrective emotional experiences that lead to constructive dependency and what Rogers termed ‘existential living.’

    AGENDA

    Day 1 AM

    Registration and Check in
    Introduction to Externship & Attachment Science as a Guide for Psychotherapy ― EFIT, EFCT, EFFT
    Basics of the EFT Model ― Experiential & Systemic

    Day 1 PM
    Overview of the process of change ― Stages and Steps
    EFT Tango Across Modalities and Multicultural Extra-C.A.R.E. model
    Exercise or video Clip & Discussion

    Day 2 AM
    Case Presentation: Live Session or Tape Review or Case Role-Play ― Discussion
    Assessment in EFIT & EFCT
    Alliance Building

    Day 2 PM
    Stage 1 ― Stabilization / De-escalation of Negative Cycles
    Exercise or video Clip & Discussion

    Day 3 AM
    Case Presentation / Live Session or Tape Review / Discussion
    Micro Interventions / RISSSC / Catch-the-Bullet / Building Attachment / Slice It Thinner

    Day 3 PM
    Stage 2 and Change Events
    Exercise or video Clip & Discussion

    Day 4 AM
    EFIT ― Goals ― Tango ― Watch DVD Sessions
    Forgiveness and Attachment Injuries in EFCT

    Day 4 PM
    Escalated Couples / Traumatized Individual Clients
    Exercises or Video Clip & Discussion

    Who is this training for?

    All mental health professionals including psychiatrists, psychologists, family physicians, social workers, psychiatric nurses, counsellors (including couples and family therapists), pastors and clergy, and students training in these professions. School counsellors and occupational therapists are permitted to attend if they are licensed and belong to a professional body that has standards of practice for psychotherapy/counselling.

    Life coaches are not permitted to attend unless they also meet one of the mental health professional categories listed above.

    Prerequisites & Sequence

    EFCT Core Skills follows an Externship.

    Required Reading:  The Practice of Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy: Creating Connection, 3rd edition, by Susan M. Johnson, 2020. Routledge.

    Recommended Readings:

    Attachment Theory in Practice: Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) with Individuals, Couples, and Families by Dr. Susan M. Johnson, 2019. Guildford Press.

    Becoming an Emotionally Focused Therapist: The Workbook, 2nd  edition, by James L. Furrow, Susan M. Johnson, Brent Bradley, Lorrie L. Brubacher, T. Leanne Campbell, Veronica Kallos-Lilly, Gail Palmer, Kathryn Rheem, Scott R. Woolley, 2022. Routledge.

    Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy with African American Couples: Love Heals, by Paul Guillory, PhD, 2021. Routledge.

    CONTINUING EDUCATION: 

    We are in the process of applying for 24 hours of continuing education credit for LMFTs, LCSWs, LPCCs, and/or LEPs as required by the California Board of Behavioral Sciences, and for psychologists through the CPA OPD. 

    IMPORTANT NOTICE:
    Those who attend this workshop in full and complete the course evaluation will receive a certificate of completion via email following the workshop. Please note that credit will only be granted to those who attend the entire workshop.  Those arriving more than 15 minutes after the start time or leaving before the workshop is completed will not receive CE credit.

    ACCOMMODATIONS:

    NCCEFT meets all applicable local, state and federal standards, including the Americans with Disabilities Act of 1990 (ADA), 42, U.S.C. 12101-12213 (2008)). We hold events only at professional venues that comply with the Americans with Disabilities Act of 1990 (ADA), 42, U.S.C. 12101-12213 (2008)

    ADA NEEDS: We will be happy to accommodate your ADA needs; please contact us at NCCEFTinfo@gmail.com  at least two weeks prior to the seminar date.

    NCCEFT PROGRAM GRIEVANCE AND REFUND POLICY: 

    The Northern California Community for Emotionally Focused Therapy (NCCEFT) is fully committed to conducting all activities in strict conformance with the American Psychological Association's Ethical Principles of Psychologists. NCCEFT will comply with all legal and ethical responsibilities to be non-discriminatory in promotional activities, program content and in the treatment of program participants.  The monitoring and assessment of compliance with these standards will be the responsibility of the CPA PAS CE Program Director in consultation with the Board of Directors (Steering Committee).

    While NCCEFT works to assure fair treatment for all participants and attempts to anticipate problems, there will be occasional issues which will require intervention and/or action on the part of NCCEFT. This procedural description serves as a guideline for handling such complaints.

    When a participant, either orally or in written format, files a grievance and expects action on the complaint, the following actions will be taken:

    1. If the complaint concerns a speaker, the content presented by the speaker, or the style of presentation, the individual filing the complaint will be asked to put his/her comments in written format. The CE Program Director will then pass on the comments to the speaker, assuring the confidentiality of the aggrieved individual.

    2. If the complaint concerns a workshop offering, its content, level of presentation, or the facilities in which the workshop was offered, the CE Program Director will mediate and will be the final arbitrator. If the participant requests action during a workshop or conference, the CE Program Director or his/her representative will:

    a. attempt to rectify the situation, and/or

    b. provide a credit for a subsequent presentation, in the event of a program having an attendance fee or

    c. provide a partial or full refund of the registration fee, in the event of a program having an attendance fee.

    Actions 2b and 2c will require a written note, documenting the grievance, for record keeping purposes. The note need not be signed by the aggrieved individual.

    3. If the grievance concerns the business practices of the NCCEFT CE program in a specific regard, the CE Program Director or Administrator will attempt to arbitrate.

    CANCELLATION POLICY:

    30 days or more before start date: full refund minus payment system processing fees.

    15-29 days before start date, full refund minus 25% fee

    No refund is possible less than 15 days before start date.

Past events

09 Nov 2024 Trailblazing New EFT Ground: Stress, Attachment and Cultural Humility
13 Jul 2024 Affairs: Moving on From the Crisis of Discovery
04 May 2024 Introducing the Application of Ketamine Assisted EFCT: A revelatory intervention that assists clients and clinician alike
21 Oct 2023 NCCEFT Quarterly October 21, 2023 CULTURAL HUMILITY & EFT Tango Moves
03 Jun 2023 In Person Summer Quarterly, June 3rd 2023
13 May 2023 NCCEFT 2023 Fundraiser May 13 & 14 IN PERSON AND ONLINE
29 Oct 2022 Fall Quarterly Kickoff: EFT and Returning to the Basics
29 Oct 2022 IN PERSON Quarterly Kickoff October 29th
08 Apr 2022 NCCEFT 2022 Fundraiser April 8th and 9th
29 Jan 2022 Jan 29 Quarterly Event: OK Context Is A Thing, Now What?
29 Jan 2022 NCCEFT Quarterly ON-LINE Meeting: January 29th
25 Sep 2021 Use of the Self, EFT, and Conversations about Culture and Race
26 Jun 2021 NCCEFT Quarterly ON-LINE Meeting
16 Apr 2021 NCCEFT 2021 Fundraiser April 16 - 17, 2021
06 Mar 2021 NCCEFT Quarterly Meeting: Embodying EFT: Enhancing the Somatic Dimension
30 Jan 2021 NCCEFT Quarterly ON-LINE Training: EFiT with Sam Jinich, PhD
18 Dec 2020 Very Attached ZOOM Holiday Party
10 Oct 2020 NCCEFT Day-long Training with Rebecca Jorgensen, PhD
26 Sep 2020 NCCEFT Quarterly Fall Kick-Off Event
23 May 2020 Doing EFT Online: A Conversation with Rebecca and Sam
06 Mar 2020 NCCEFT 2020 Fundraiser--High Conflict Couples with George Faller
01 Feb 2020 NCCEFT Quarterly Meeting: Affect Theory and EFT
07 Dec 2019 Very Attached Holiday Party
02 Nov 2019 NCCEFT Daylong: Developing Confidence in Addressing Sexual Issues Within Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy
07 Sep 2019 NCCEFT Fall Kick-Off--Attachment Therapist as Fellow Traveler: Attunement in EFT
22 Jun 2019 Affect Theory and EFT: Welcoming Secondary Emotions & Reactive Behaviors
27 Apr 2019 Integrating EFT and Sex Therapy Through Case Studies
22 Mar 2019 NCCEFT Fundraiser--Emotionally Focused Family Therapy: Healing Relationships and Promoting Resilience
02 Feb 2019 Robert Solley, PhD; EFT on a Spectrum
01 Dec 2018 Very Attached Holiday Party
27 Oct 2018 EFT with High Conflict Couples
08 Sep 2018 Back to EFT Basics with Sam Jinich, Ph.D.
16 Jun 2018 Leading, Being Led, Walking Beside: Collaboration with the Couple in EFT
14 Apr 2018 Shoring up the Emotional Bonds from the Inside Out Internal Family Systems (IFS) and EFT - Partners in Intimacy
02 Feb 2018 NCCEFT Fundraiser: Sex as a Safe Adventure: Connecting Sexually and Emotionally Through EFT
06 Jan 2018 EFT for New Parents: Navigating the Attachment Minefield
02 Dec 2017 NCCEFT Very Attached Holiday Party
23 Sep 2017 STEP 3: The Challenges of Accessing Emotions When the Withdrawer and the Pursuer are Highly Cognitive
17 Jun 2017 NCCEFT Quarterly Meeting: Can You See Me? Providing Emotionally Focused Therapy to Middle Eastern and Immigrant Couples.
07 Apr 2017 NCCEFT Annual Fundraiser
04 Mar 2017 NCCEFT Quarterly Meeting: The Dreaded "S" Word
14 Jan 2017 NCCEFT Quarterly Meeting: Unlocking the Mystery of Pursuer Softening
10 Dec 2016 NCCEFT Very Attached Holiday Party
01 Oct 2016 Step 2 of EFT: Tracking the Reactive Negative Cycle
18 Jun 2016 Making Peace with Pursuit
07 May 2016 EFT and Grief
08 Apr 2016 How Sharing Emotions Calms the Traumatized Brain and Heart: The Application of EFT with Trauma Couples
23 Jan 2016 Roadmap to EFT Certification
05 Dec 2015 NCCEFT Very Attached Holiday Party
26 Sep 2015 Stage 1: Attuning to the Relational Bond with EFT Interventions
27 Jun 2015 Working with Men in the EFT Model
24 Apr 2015 Addressing Addictions while Fostering Secure Attachments with EFT
28 Mar 2015 EFT with Same-Sex Couples: An Open Discussion
31 Jan 2015 The Joy of Sex: A Therapists’ Guide to Sex and Self of Therapist in EFT
06 Dec 2014 NCCEFT Very Attached Holiday Party
20 Sep 2014 Stuck Places in EFT
28 Jun 2014 Withdraw-Withdraw Couples: Moving into Increased Engagement
30 May 2014 Journey into Your Self as a Therapist: Self-Exploration, Discovery and Transformation
29 Mar 2014 The EFT Tango Map
25 Jan 2014 Healing Attachment Injuries with Emotionally Focused Therapy
28 Sep 2013 FIREFIGHT: When The Negative Reactive Cycle Explodes In The Therapy Room

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NCCEFT
775 East Blithedale Ave. #625

Mill Valley, CA 94941


Email
ncceftinfo@gmail.com


In association with the International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy


NCCEFT is a professional association of therapists practicing Emotionally Focused Therapy in Northern California. Serving communities of the San Francisco Bay Area and beyond, including San Francisco, Oakland, Berkeley, Fremont, San Jose, Sacramento, Santa Rosa, Stockton, Modesto, Fresno, and beyond; we have members throughout California and throughout the United States.
 
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