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The NCCEFT has four regular community meetings and one two-day fundraiser each year. Additional gatherings may be organized by members on an informal basis, usually on a Saturday.

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    • 06 Jun 2026
    • 10:00 AM - 1:00 PM
    • First Presbyterian Church of Berkeley, 2407 Dana Street, Berkeley, CA 94704
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    In Person Quarterly Event

    Moving from Stage 1 to Stage 2 - Engaging Withdrawers in Step 5

    Presented by:

    Karen Godfredsen, PsyD

    When: June 6

    Time: 10am to 1pm

    Where: First Presbyterian Church of Berkeley, 2407 Dana Street, Berkeley, CA 94704


    SUBJECT: 

    Withdrawer Reengagement (EFT Step 5) is a delicate moment in the EFT process. At this pivotal point therapists must recognize and respond to signs of the couple’s readiness for change, shifting from Stage 1 to Stage 2 Tango techniques without straining their newfound, still-fragile de-escalation. Additionally, because of the particular challenges Withdrawers face in exploring deeper emotion, successfully moving to Stage 2 requires tailoring interventions to meet the Withdrawer’s unique attachment needs and vulnerabilities in transitional sessions. 

    Using actual in-session video and audience engagement this training will offer participants effective strategies for using the Tango to access and enact Withdrawer vulnerability, easing the way into Stage 2.  Strategies explored will include stage-specific adjustments to the length and focus of moves within the Tango, and the targeted use of practical microskills like conjecture, affirmation, reflection, and proxy voice to support the Withdrawer in turning more openly towards a previously unsafe partner. 


    LEARNING OBJECTIVES: 

    1. Identify 1-2 important indicators that a couple is ready to move to Stage 2 of EFT

    2. Describe 2 EFT Tango techniques useful in moving from Stage 1 to Stage 2

    3. Identify 2-3 effective strategies for accessing vulnerability during Withdrawer Reengagement when working with EFT

    PRESENTER:  

    Karen Godfredsen, PsyD has been a clinical psychologist providing direct services, training, supervision and consultation for over 20 years. Her early clinical experience included work in jails, community mental health clinics, AIDS service organizations, and VA hospitals, all with an emphasis on promoting social justice, cross-cultural sensitivity and the empowerment of clients through therapy. She served as Director of Behavioral Health for the AIDS Resource Center of Wisconsin, overseeing the expansion and improvement of services provided to people living with AIDS and founded the Lake Michigan Internship Consortium, an AAPIC-accredited postdoctoral training program placing and supporting graduates in under-resourced local community mental health settings. 

    Throughout her career, Karen has provided graduate level instruction to therapists in training at Marquette University, Argosy University, and the Wright Institute, where she served as Core Faculty and Associate Program Director for the Master’s in Counseling Program for nine years. 

    Currently in full time private practice serving couples, individuals and families online throughout California, Karen's work is guided by emotion-centered and attachment-based models of therapy, including Emotionally Focused Therapy, Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy, Internal Family Systems and Core Self Reclamation Therapy. She is a certified Emotionally Focused Couples Therapist and Supervisor Candidate Providing supervision in EFCT, as well as supervision and consultation in family therapy, ethical dilemmas and crisis intervention. She is active in her local EFT community, serving as NCCEFT Chair Elect and Board Chair from 2018-2020 and on the NCCEFT Diversity Committee for five years. As a therapist, supervisor and colleague, she works to remain grounded in the warmth, compassion, humor and respect for clients so central to the practice of Emotionally Focused Therapy.

    AGENDA: 

    10:00 – 10:30: Snacks and Socializing

    10:30 – 10:50: Announcements

    10:50 – 11:50: Program

    11:50 – 12:00: Break (not included in CE credits)

    12:00 – 1:00: Program Resumes

    1:00: Program Adjourns

    TARGET AUDIENCE:

    This training is appropriate for mental health practitioners who work with couples using Emotionally Focused Therapy.  Level is introductory to intermediate.

    COST:

    This training is free to members, while non-members pay $10. Two Continuing Education (CE) credits are available to both members and non-members for a charge of $40. A link to register and pay $40 for CE's will be emailed to all registrants at a later date prior to the training.

    CONTINUING EDUCATION:

    • Alliant International University is approved by the American Psychological Association to Sponsor Continuing Education for psychologists. 

    • Alliant International University Maintains Sole Responsibility For This Program and Its Content. 

    • Provider Approved by the California Board of Registered Nursing, Provider #CEP17538, For 2 Contact Hours. 

    • Approved by NBCC as an Approved Continuing Education Provider, ACEP No.4469

    • Those seeking CE Credit under the BRN must retain this certificate for a minimum of 4 years.

    • There are no known conflicts of interest, and no commercial support, associated with this program.

    We are not authorized to speak on behalf of any licensing boards. If you have questions, check your licensing board’s website for their approved CE providers (for example, to see if they accept APA- or NBCC-approved CE providers). If you are still not sure, feel free to send what you have found on your licensing board’s website to help@trieft.org and they can help further clarify.

    IMPORTANT NOTICE:

    Those who attend this workshop in full, and complete the course evaluation will receive a certificate of completion via email within one week following the workshop. Please note that credit will only be granted to those who attend the entire workshop.  Those arriving more than 15 minutes after the start time or leaving before the workshop is completed will not receive CE credit.

    ACCOMMODATIONS:

    NCCEFT meets all applicable local, state and federal standards, including the Americans with Disabilities Act of 1990 (ADA), 42, U.S.C. 12101-12213 (2008)). We hold events only at professional venues that comply with the Americans with Disabilities Act of 1990 (ADA), 42, U.S.C. 12101-12213 (2008)

    ADA NEEDS: We will be happy to accommodate your ADA needs; please contact us at NCCEFTinfo@gmail.com  at least two weeks prior to the seminar date.

    PARKING:

    For those with limited mobility, the underground church parking garage has disabled person parking spaces and an elevator up to the main floor. The entrance to the underground church parking garage is located on the south side of Channing Way between Telegraph Ave and Dana St. The cost is $1 per 20 minutes with a $10 maximum. A second option is across the street from the church on the north side of Channing Way at the Telegraph-Channing Garage. The cost is free for the first hour and $2 per hour after that.

    NCCEFT PROGRAM GRIEVANCE AND REFUND POLICY: 

    The Northern California Community for Emotionally Focused Therapy (NCCEFT) is fully committed to conducting all activities in strict conformance with the American Psychological Association's Ethical Principles of Psychologists. NCCEFT will comply with all legal and ethical responsibilities to be non-discriminatory in promotional activities, program content and in the treatment of program participants.  The monitoring and assessment of compliance with these standards will be the responsibility of the CPA PAS CE Program Director in consultation with the Board of Directors (Steering Committee).

    While NCCEFT works to assure fair treatment for all participants and attempts to anticipate problems, there will be occasional issues which will require intervention and/or action on the part of NCCEFT. This procedural description serves as a guideline for handling such complaints.

    When a participant, either orally or in written format, files a grievance and expects action on the complaint, the following actions will be taken:

    1. If the complaint concerns a speaker, the content presented by the speaker, or the style of presentation, the individual filing the complaint will be asked to put his/her comments in written format. The CE Program Director will then pass on the comments to the speaker, assuring the confidentiality of the aggrieved individual.

    2. If the complaint concerns a workshop offering, its content, level of presentation, or the facilities in which the workshop was offered, the CE Program Director will mediate and will be the final arbitrator. If the participant requests action during a workshop or conference, the CE Program Director or his/her representative will:

    a. attempt to rectify the situation, and/or

    b. provide a credit for a subsequent presentation, in the event of a program having an attendance fee or

    c. provide a partial or full refund of the registration fee, in the event of a program having an attendance fee.

    Actions 2b and 2c will require a written note, documenting the grievance, for record keeping purposes. The note need not be signed by the aggrieved individual.

    3. If the grievance concerns the business practices of the NCCEFT CE program in a specific regard, the CE Program Director or Administrator will attempt to arbitrate.

    REFUND AND ATTENDANCE POLICY:

    In the event that a program presentation has an attendance fee, CANCELLATIONS should be made 48 hours prior to the event.



    • 06 Nov 2026
    • 07 Nov 2026

    Save the Date!

    Master Class with Dr. Leanne Campbell:
    EFIT and Trauma and Grief Training

    Join us for a special fundraising event with Dr. Leanne Campbell, EFT Trainer and expert in EFIT (Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy) and working with trauma and grief.

    November 6–7, 2026

    Stay tuned for registration details!


Past events

17 Apr 2026 Facilitating Curious Conversations: Cultural Attunement Using an Attachment Lens- Presented by: James Hawkins, Ph.D., LPC
12 Apr 2026 NCCEFT Board of Directors Meeting – Member Open Session
21 Mar 2026 Working with Couples from Mixed Cultural Backgrounds: Collectivist / Individualist- Presented by: Jyoti Nadhani, LMFT & Trent Wright, MFT, LPCC, JD
09 Feb 2026 EFCT Externship Presented by: Dr. Paul Guillory, PhD
08 Feb 2026 NCCEFT Board of Directors Meeting – Member Open Session
15 Nov 2025 NCCEFT Quarterly: Self of the Therapist in EFT: Going Beyond Countertransference and Using our Humanity as a Therapeutic Asset
17 Oct 2025 POLYVAGAL THEORY, SHAME AND EFT: INTEGRATING NEUROSCIENCE AND ATTACHMENT TO TRANSFORM COUPLES THERAPY
10 May 2025 NCCEFT Quarterly: Compulsive Behaviors - Using Harm Reduction & Motivational Interviewing in EFCT
13 Jul 2024 Affairs: Moving on From the Crisis of Discovery
04 May 2024 Introducing the Application of Ketamine Assisted EFCT: A revelatory intervention that assists clients and clinician alike
21 Oct 2023 NCCEFT Quarterly October 21, 2023 CULTURAL HUMILITY & EFT Tango Moves
03 Jun 2023 In Person Summer Quarterly, June 3rd 2023
13 May 2023 NCCEFT 2023 Fundraiser May 13 & 14 IN PERSON AND ONLINE
29 Oct 2022 IN PERSON Quarterly Kickoff October 29th
21 May 2022 Spring Potluck a Tilden Park
08 Apr 2022 NCCEFT 2022 Fundraiser April 8th and 9th
29 Jan 2022 NCCEFT Quarterly ON-LINE Meeting: January 29th
25 Sep 2021 Use of the Self, EFT, and Conversations about Culture and Race
26 Jun 2021 NCCEFT Quarterly ON-LINE Meeting
16 Apr 2021 NCCEFT 2021 Fundraiser April 16 - 17, 2021
06 Mar 2021 NCCEFT Quarterly Meeting: Embodying EFT: Enhancing the Somatic Dimension
30 Jan 2021 NCCEFT Quarterly ON-LINE Training: EFiT with Sam Jinich, PhD
18 Dec 2020 Very Attached ZOOM Holiday Party
10 Oct 2020 NCCEFT Day-long Training with Rebecca Jorgensen, PhD
26 Sep 2020 NCCEFT Quarterly Fall Kick-Off Event
23 May 2020 Doing EFT Online: A Conversation with Rebecca and Sam
06 Mar 2020 NCCEFT 2020 Fundraiser--High Conflict Couples with George Faller
01 Feb 2020 NCCEFT Quarterly Meeting: Affect Theory and EFT
07 Dec 2019 Very Attached Holiday Party
02 Nov 2019 NCCEFT Daylong: Developing Confidence in Addressing Sexual Issues Within Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy
07 Sep 2019 NCCEFT Fall Kick-Off--Attachment Therapist as Fellow Traveler: Attunement in EFT
22 Jun 2019 Affect Theory and EFT: Welcoming Secondary Emotions & Reactive Behaviors
27 Apr 2019 Integrating EFT and Sex Therapy Through Case Studies
22 Mar 2019 NCCEFT Fundraiser--Emotionally Focused Family Therapy: Healing Relationships and Promoting Resilience
02 Feb 2019 Robert Solley, PhD; EFT on a Spectrum
01 Dec 2018 Very Attached Holiday Party
27 Oct 2018 EFT with High Conflict Couples
08 Sep 2018 Back to EFT Basics with Sam Jinich, Ph.D.
16 Jun 2018 Leading, Being Led, Walking Beside: Collaboration with the Couple in EFT
14 Apr 2018 Shoring up the Emotional Bonds from the Inside Out Internal Family Systems (IFS) and EFT - Partners in Intimacy
02 Feb 2018 NCCEFT Fundraiser: Sex as a Safe Adventure: Connecting Sexually and Emotionally Through EFT
06 Jan 2018 EFT for New Parents: Navigating the Attachment Minefield
02 Dec 2017 NCCEFT Very Attached Holiday Party
23 Sep 2017 STEP 3: The Challenges of Accessing Emotions When the Withdrawer and the Pursuer are Highly Cognitive
17 Jun 2017 NCCEFT Quarterly Meeting: Can You See Me? Providing Emotionally Focused Therapy to Middle Eastern and Immigrant Couples.
07 Apr 2017 NCCEFT Annual Fundraiser
04 Mar 2017 NCCEFT Quarterly Meeting: The Dreaded "S" Word
14 Jan 2017 NCCEFT Quarterly Meeting: Unlocking the Mystery of Pursuer Softening
10 Dec 2016 NCCEFT Very Attached Holiday Party
01 Oct 2016 Step 2 of EFT: Tracking the Reactive Negative Cycle
18 Jun 2016 Making Peace with Pursuit
07 May 2016 EFT and Grief
08 Apr 2016 How Sharing Emotions Calms the Traumatized Brain and Heart: The Application of EFT with Trauma Couples
23 Jan 2016 Roadmap to EFT Certification
05 Dec 2015 NCCEFT Very Attached Holiday Party
26 Sep 2015 Stage 1: Attuning to the Relational Bond with EFT Interventions
27 Jun 2015 Working with Men in the EFT Model
24 Apr 2015 Addressing Addictions while Fostering Secure Attachments with EFT
28 Mar 2015 EFT with Same-Sex Couples: An Open Discussion
31 Jan 2015 The Joy of Sex: A Therapists’ Guide to Sex and Self of Therapist in EFT
06 Dec 2014 NCCEFT Very Attached Holiday Party
20 Sep 2014 Stuck Places in EFT
28 Jun 2014 Withdraw-Withdraw Couples: Moving into Increased Engagement
30 May 2014 Journey into Your Self as a Therapist: Self-Exploration, Discovery and Transformation
29 Mar 2014 The EFT Tango Map

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NCCEFT
775 East Blithedale Ave. #625

Mill Valley, CA 94941


Email
ncceftinfo@gmail.com

In association with the International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy


NCCEFT is a professional association of therapists practicing Emotionally Focused Therapy in Northern California. Serving communities of the San Francisco Bay Area and beyond, including San Francisco, Oakland, Berkeley, Fremont, San Jose, Sacramento, Santa Rosa, Stockton, Modesto, Fresno, and beyond; we have members throughout California and throughout the United States.
 
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